Monday, November 1, 2010

If You Have Nothing Nice to Say...

I'm still saying it!

If I read one more blog that says "we weren't even trying to get pregnant, it just happened" I might throw my laptop/rip my hair out/scream at the top of my lungs.

I know, I'm bitter. Very bitter. I shouldn't be, but I am. If this experience has taught me anything it's that you never know how long or hard others have struggled to have a child. I understand that people don't mean their statements to rub it in, but stop and think that maybe it's not that easy for everyone else. We haven't even been trying *that* long. I can't imagine couples who try for years and years only to never get pregnant.

I'm just tired of seeing 17 year old's pregnant and people who "accidentally" got pregnant, and "we weren't even trying, it just happened". Good for you. I wish it could "just happen" for me too.

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